Networking No No’s!

We have seen the importance of social media in our personal lives and we have also seen its effectiveness when it comes to our careers. These social networking websites have both work and play to offer; however, in the excitement of it all we do go overboard by mixing the two together. Be mindful one should have a clear partition between the personal and professional aspect. This article covers the five most ineffective networking practices

1. Not Keeping in Touch

Most of the times when we add someone to our buddy list, we don’t think twice before clicking the “add friend” button. Once added, we forget about them – not keeping in touch is considered very rude and if the person you recently added happens to be a professional, my friend you just hammered your own foot. Following up with your contacts is very important, once you establish connections with other professionals express your interest and show you are keen to keep in touch. Remember your interaction; make notes if you have to so the next time you interact you are up to date.

2. Pointless Profile Activity

Social networking websites are just like meetings; some are “hang outs” where you can crack jokes, relax and kick back – while others are like “meetings” or “formal gatherings” where you are required to wear particular attire and expected to behave accordingly. Posting inappropriate links, starting pointless discussions or making childish comments will only make your profile weaker. Imagine, you are at a formal dinner with your parents, you see a few people your age, the rest are all grownups with silver hair and aged foreheads, how would you feel if one of the people your age starts hammer time right in the middle of the tables? Doesn’t sound like a good idea; does it? Same is the case here; make sure your posts, comments and replies are appropriate and in accordance with the nature of the site.

3. Making Insignificant Impressions

When we talk about impressions, they should be strong and long lasting. A memorable experience will speak volumes for a long time, so make sure every interaction you have, leaves a strong impression. Interact in a way that evokes emotion and feelings, you should be mindful of your abilities and market yourself well with all you have.

4. The True Meaning

Often professionals would like to employ networking websites to sell themselves or add to their card collection. Take the time out to know people around, talk about common interests share views and discuss accordingly. Try to develop and maintain a healthy relationship and if you can volunteer your services. It is all about making contacts, right?

5. Big Mouth

We like to have our minds heard, and it is alright as long as you don’t overdo it. Pay attention to what is going on, what are people talking about, what is that discussion about? If there is a particular topic being discussed and you feel like commenting, make sure your information is correct and up to date. Focus on the people you meet by listening to what they say and try to remember the interaction. A positive upbeat attitude will speak for your personality; it will also allow others to feel more comfortable with you. Even if you are going through some tough times, tell it in a way that is light and positive.

Other than the five points mentioned above, the “profile picture” also seems to be an issue. Let it be clear, on a professional networking website no one wants to see the size of your biceps, or that posh car you have – and surely they have no interest in how good you look with that double shadow eye shade or how pretty your hands look with a French manicure. Your profile picture should be “modest enough” preferably with you wearing something formal. That picture you have on your profile is the first thing other people might see and not all of them will be willing to give you a second chance to improve on your impression.

Having an awareness of these ineffective networking strategies improves your chances with your competition. There are many professional networking websites with a number of high key professionals actively participating; make sure you send out the right impression, you never know the person you are interacting with might be willing to offer you the position of your dreams.

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